To sanctify means to set apart. You are set aside so that God can use you only. That no one and nothing else can disturb your purpose. The purity of your soul determines the effectiveness of your spirit. We live in two worlds. We exist in the spirit and navigate in the natural. Part of you controls what happens in an unseen world while you are living in a natural body. Being effective is spiritual. What you allow to be done in your soul determines how effective you’ll be. To be affected is emotional. The amount of truth you receive, that you are actively engaged and operating in, determines your effectiveness.
God moves through His grace which is God’s ability in you to accomplish His purposes and plans. It’s by grace that we get the work of God done. So, what is the work that grace is getting done through you? Paul’s assignment was to the Gentiles. What is your assignment? God will reveal your assignment in this period of grace but it will only be revealed by the spirit. At this time revelation is coming to you to do a work required by grace. Don’t look at the things that you think you are doing wrong as indicators of the timing. The Holy Ghost is not limited by what you say or do. If God wants you to preach, there is a grace for you to do it but you must be willing. You can’t be afraid.
What you need to know is that the connections you have made historically and temporarily have graced you to do the work. God sends people to purposely impart into you what you need when the time is fulfilled. Some people may disconnect but not their importation. Some people can’t go with you into your next. But at the fulfillment of time, God will send more people to connect with you to fulfill his purpose. Don’t say you don’t know how because God will take the good and the bad to work his divine purpose through you. For all things work together for the good of them that love God and God will use all things for the purpose of dispensing His grace.
If you don’t know your assignment in a particular season, wait until you know. There is a working of the supernatural giving to and flowing through you to do gods work on the earth. You are effective whether you know it or not. The Word of God in you is working without your permission. You can’t force yourself to be what you want to be. The Lord must build the house. The more you submit to the sanctification of truth, the more dominant your spirit and the more effective you’ll be.